Comments for My thoughts no matter how random they may be!!! http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Mon, 19 Oct 2009 02:24:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Happy Anti-love Day by Shalanda Guy http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/02/12/happy-anti-love-day/#comment-42 Shalanda Guy Mon, 19 Oct 2009 02:24:28 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-42 God Loves U! God Loves U!

]]> Comment on Happy Anti-love Day by Shalanda Gut http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/02/12/happy-anti-love-day/#comment-41 Shalanda Gut Mon, 19 Oct 2009 02:22:05 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-41 Me personally I use to think V-day was only 4 suckas! LoL! No but seriously I understand where u coming from every yr I use to dread seeing that day coming! I get to thinking why am I still by myself, I see people shopping 4 gifts & surprises for there loved 1s. But I thought why everybody so excited about 1 day out of the yr. I guess they are not always told from that person that they are loved & appreciated. Even if I am single yrs & yrs to come I still have family who loves me. My son makes me a card every yr. and that's all the love I need! He is truly the love of my life & he tells me everyday not just on Valentines Day! That makes me feel appreciated! It's the little things that goes a long way! When u have that true relationship with God he will show u who is 4 u & who is not 4 u! Take your time & Listen to God! Your Happiness matters! Me personally I use to think V-day was only 4 suckas! LoL! No but seriously I understand where u coming from every yr I use to dread seeing that day coming! I get to thinking why am I still by myself, I see people shopping 4 gifts & surprises for there loved 1s. But I thought why everybody so excited about 1 day out of the yr. I guess they are not always told from that person that they are loved & appreciated. Even if I am single yrs & yrs to come I still have family who loves me. My son makes me a card every yr. and that’s all the love I need! He is truly the love of my life & he tells me everyday not just on Valentines Day! That makes me feel appreciated! It’s the little things that goes a long way! When u have that true relationship with God he will show u who is 4 u & who is not 4 u! Take your time & Listen to God! Your Happiness matters!

]]> Comment on Take Pride and Stop Settling!! by Shalanda Gut http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/09/25/take-pride-and-stop-settling/#comment-40 Shalanda Gut Mon, 19 Oct 2009 01:47:41 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=38#comment-40 I agree 100%! The part where u stress about the clubbing mothers. That was on the money. I think after u have children it's no longer about u anymore. Train, and teach your children how to survive. Stop being a friend and start being a responsible parent. A dog can give birth, but that dnt make it a mother. Before I had my son that's all I did was club! But after giving birth all games put aside he is so much more important. I see so many women settling for anything. They want a man just to say they got 1 because they dnt love themselves. And If that's all u want is a man then you dnt want much! I know that God loves me whereever he leads me I know I can't go wrong! Strong points brutha Green! Keep doing what u doing! God Bless u! Sorry 4 the long comment! Lol! I agree 100%! The part where u stress about the clubbing mothers. That was on the money. I think after u have children it’s no longer about u anymore. Train, and teach your children how to survive. Stop being a friend and start being a responsible parent. A dog can give birth, but that dnt make it a mother. Before I had my son that’s all I did was club! But after giving birth all games put aside he is so much more important. I see so many women settling for anything. They want a man just to say they got 1 because they dnt love themselves. And If that’s all u want is a man then you dnt want much! I know that God loves me whereever he leads me I know I can’t go wrong! Strong points brutha Green! Keep doing what u doing! God Bless u! Sorry 4 the long comment! Lol!

]]> Comment on Take Pride and Stop Settling!! by dmgreen80 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/09/25/take-pride-and-stop-settling/#comment-39 dmgreen80 Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:48:35 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=38#comment-39 That's true Jackina I think a lot of women forget to love themselves and that's how they get caught up with nothing dudes seeking the nned to feel wanted!! Kendra wow? you ok? That’s true Jackina I think a lot of women forget to love themselves and that’s how they get caught up with nothing dudes seeking the nned to feel wanted!!

Kendra wow? you ok?

]]> Comment on Take Pride and Stop Settling!! by Kendra http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/09/25/take-pride-and-stop-settling/#comment-38 Kendra Fri, 25 Sep 2009 18:07:57 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=38#comment-38 Wow!!!! That's all I can say. Wow!!!! That’s all I can say.

]]> Comment on Take Pride and Stop Settling!! by Jackina http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/09/25/take-pride-and-stop-settling/#comment-37 Jackina Fri, 25 Sep 2009 12:46:35 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=38#comment-37 Very well said. But none of it matters if you don't love yourself. If a woman truely loves herself, she can let that bs slide off her shoulders cause she knows her worth. Love self first and others will follow. (I read Jay Z line in here, don't know if it was on purpose, but either way, good use of it!) Very well said. But none of it matters if you don’t love yourself. If a woman truely loves herself, she can let that bs slide off her shoulders cause she knows her worth. Love self first and others will follow. (I read Jay Z line in here, don’t know if it was on purpose, but either way, good use of it!)

]]> Comment on A love letter full of song titles!!! by Sokneeuh http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/01/25/a-love-letter-full-of-song-titles/#comment-35 Sokneeuh Sat, 28 Feb 2009 04:49:15 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=19#comment-35 That was cool. Do another one! That was cool. Do another one!

]]> Comment on Happy Anti-love Day by Natalie http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/02/12/happy-anti-love-day/#comment-34 Natalie Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:01:24 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-34 wow after all those wonderful and very deep responses i feel so out of p lace with my response....................which is............................................................ Thank for the ANTI-LOVE DAY shout-out, my sentiments exactly!!!!! but Tara that S.A.D. thing is quite cool i might grasp on to that nest year!!! wow after all those wonderful and very deep responses i feel so out of p lace with my response………………..which is…………………………………………………… Thank for the ANTI-LOVE DAY shout-out, my sentiments exactly!!!!!

but Tara that S.A.D. thing is quite cool i might grasp on to that nest year!!!

]]> Comment on Happy Anti-love Day by brownsugar5 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/02/12/happy-anti-love-day/#comment-33 brownsugar5 Fri, 13 Feb 2009 17:17:29 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-33 Ummm Lethal did you mean to say scarred or did you really mean scared? LOLOLOL, she is soooo going to get me for that! Yea, Tony is conceited I second that motion. I think that often times we mistake a strong feeling (maybe even gas) for love. It's natural to feel strongly for a person, and it's also natural for a man who cares deeply for a women to want to "fix" her. When in actuality all he can do is support her when she needs the lift and be that constant friend that she needs to help her get over the Wednesday-like hump. I learned recently that love shouldn't hurt, physically, mentally, or emotionally. That's why I strongly feel that sometimes we mistake strong feelings or "liking real hard" as Mario so tastefully wrote it, for love. Just my five cents! Ummm Lethal did you mean to say scarred or did you really mean scared? LOLOLOL, she is soooo going to get me for that!

Yea, Tony is conceited I second that motion.

I think that often times we mistake a strong feeling (maybe even gas) for love. It’s natural to feel strongly for a person, and it’s also natural for a man who cares deeply for a women to want to “fix” her. When in actuality all he can do is support her when she needs the lift and be that constant friend that she needs to help her get over the Wednesday-like hump. I learned recently that love shouldn’t hurt, physically, mentally, or emotionally. That’s why I strongly feel that sometimes we mistake strong feelings or “liking real hard” as Mario so tastefully wrote it, for love.

Just my five cents!

]]> Comment on Happy Anti-love Day by lethal15 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/2009/02/12/happy-anti-love-day/#comment-32 lethal15 Fri, 13 Feb 2009 17:00:41 +0000 http://dmgreen80.wordpress.com/?p=22#comment-32 Now Tony, you are in love with yourself because you are conceited. I agree with this post. Why is/should one freakin day illustrate your love for a person? My feelings on this are if I am that special to you then I should receive the same attention every month! If I am so special why doesn't the day I was born (30th) of every month stand out to you? Should you think "This is the day she was born on...let me show her how glad I am that she is here!!" Now I know that is a little extreme but I am just making a point here. Why is that the ONLY day men feel "required" to show appreciation? If that is the only day you can show love and appreciation then screw you and Valentine's Day. * Disclaimer* The term you is merely used as a pronoun for all men and is not referring to any man in particular! With that said. After a woman has been hurt or deeply scared by a man, why should she even want to think about a day such as Valentine's day?? Yea, yea, I know the whole "I didn't do it" "Don't blame me for what the last man did" spills, but if you don't want to be blamed, don't attempt to MAKE a scared woman love you. Things happen and change in time and until that woman has healed, there is nothing you can do to make it better. You may be able to temporarily relieve the pain, but notice the key word is TEMPORARILY!!! You cannot make things happen when you want them to! That is just my take on the situation. Now Tony, you are in love with yourself because you are conceited.

I agree with this post. Why is/should one freakin day illustrate your love for a person? My feelings on this are if I am that special to you then I should receive the same attention every month! If I am so special why doesn’t the day I was born (30th) of every month stand out to you? Should you think “This is the day she was born on…let me show her how glad I am that she is here!!” Now I know that is a little extreme but I am just making a point here. Why is that the ONLY day men feel “required” to show appreciation? If that is the only day you can show love and appreciation then screw you and Valentine’s Day.

* Disclaimer* The term you is merely used as a pronoun for all men and is not referring to any man in particular!

With that said. After a woman has been hurt or deeply scared by a man, why should she even want to think about a day such as Valentine’s day?? Yea, yea, I know the whole “I didn’t do it” “Don’t blame me for what the last man did” spills, but if you don’t want to be blamed, don’t attempt to MAKE a scared woman love you. Things happen and change in time and until that woman has healed, there is nothing you can do to make it better. You may be able to temporarily relieve the pain, but notice the key word is TEMPORARILY!!! You cannot make things happen when you want them to!

That is just my take on the situation.

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