Time waits for no one and once it is gone you can never get it back. In life there are certain things that you have to learn. Supposedly patience is one of those things. But while you are being patient aren’t you wasting time? What is a reasonable amount of time to wait for anything? How long should you wait on someone to get himself or herself together? These are just random questions that I have been thinking lately while I have been reading different books and talking to different people. In life there are a bunch of uncertainties and things normally never go as planned. What do you do then? When something doesn’t go as you once planned do you move forward and roll on or do you use those events as an excuse to be mad at the world? Me personally I try to take bad situations learn from them and just move forward because what’s done is done and there isn’t anything we can do after it has happened, but I am starting to see that even for me it is not always that simple!!
Talk is CHEAP!! Yes I know it sounds a bit cliché’ but I am starting to really see just how cheap it is. I am so tired of people telling me one thing and then going and doing the exact opposite. I mean at what point do you start to lose your credibility? Recent events are teaching me to believe none of what I hear and only half of what I see because people can always say what you want to hear and for a brief stretch they can tailor their actions to those same words. Someone once told me “words are just words; actions are what count” and I am starting to see this statement for what it really is!!!
What happens when you date someone and then hear I think we are better off as just friends? Me I have always been a friend first romance later type of guy anyway. I want to get to know a person inside and out before I decide to just up and jump in a relationship with them. I guess my question is what make you want to be friends but don’t want to be romantically involved? How do you differentiate between who remains a friend and who you actually want to be with? What keeps the other person from thinking well damn if I’m not good enough to be with why would you want me as a friend? If you develop feelings for a person are you able to go back to being that same friend or will there be too much damage done from the feeling of being rejected? Yea I know this has been pretty random but these are just some of the thoughts going on in my mind currently!!
